Mental Health, Self-Esteem, Uncategorized

Dependent Personality Disorder: Before There Was Him… There Was You!- Guest Blogger Candace Belin

Dependent Personality Disorder: Before There Was Him... There Was You! Please note: throughout this blog entry I use "him" interchangeably. What attracted him to you was your strong sense of yourself. It included all of the things you once admired about yourself so deeply... You know...The simple things that required no effort or second thought… Continue reading Dependent Personality Disorder: Before There Was Him… There Was You!- Guest Blogger Candace Belin

Cycles of Life

I Wasn’t the Chosen One, and That’s Ok!

It's feeling like the black sheep or the last person to be picked for a team. The comparison game begins and in your mind, you're trying to find anything, something to blame. Often times I felt like this in my romantic relationships and friendships. You see why you're the best choice or how it can… Continue reading I Wasn’t the Chosen One, and That’s Ok!

Uncategorized

I’m Ending My Relationship

Nothing about this relationship is worth having, but for some reason it's been hard to leave. In this relationship I feel useless, overlooked, and insecure. I am constantly walking with trembling legs because I never know what is coming next. This relationship has been abusive mentally and emotionally. I have never in my life felt… Continue reading I’m Ending My Relationship

Candid Moments, Uncategorized

How God “checked” Me

I woke up today for prayer at 6:30am, and God knows I really didn't want to sacrifice my sleep. But I knew that there had been things troubling my spirit and we needed to talk. I got up, called in for prayer and I sat silent. For the past two weeks, I've been silent with… Continue reading How God “checked” Me